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Chasing perfection

Chasing perfection

There’s no such thing as perfection…

lifestyle, health, self love, body imageGabie RudyteAugust 25, 2018perfection, chasing perfection, what is perfect, body, self love, body image, confidence, size -, gabie rudyte, lifestyle blog, spirituality blog, life blog, life lessons, universe blogComment

4/15/2019 11:28am
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This has to be one of my favorite pictures of me. Not sure exactly why, but I look at it, and think ‘Yup. This is exactly who I am.’
Past months have been filled with excitement but also frustration. Peeling back the layers of who ‘me’ is. Figuring out what I enjoy doing, and what I don’t. Where I want to spend my time, how I want to show up in life, and asking myself lots of big questions.
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I’m doing more writing, and it makes me happy. I’m sitting in silence more and appreciating the small things about this physical world. I’ve also been having so much appreciation for myself. What I look like, who I’ve become, where I am in life.
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Things that used to bother me seem so insignificant now. Breaking out, skipping a workout, stressing about what’s next. My values are shifting, my importance about certain things is shifting, and every day I’m thinking about my own mortality.
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I’ll never be as young as I am today. Who the heck cares if I got a pimple. No one cares about your abs as much as you do. Life isn’t about achieving things. (It’s a part of it, but it’s not ABOUT it.) I’m finding so much beauty in the simple act of being alive, that life has gotten so much simpler and more relaxing.
I like that. I hope this feeling stays with me for as long as possible.

Why so angry?!😡
Last week I had 2 interesting things happen back to back. One involved my postman, the other involved a stranger. Both had anger in common.
🤬It’s become so easy to get angry and upset. Wifi too slow? Ahhhh moth*******. Train is late? Stupid f***** train.
🥺Makes me pretty sad when I see people in anger and frustration, because 99.99% of the time it’s so unnecessary & silly. I’m not saying DON’T FEEL ANGRY EVER, I’m just saying that we get angry over insignificant & small things.
☝🏼It’s never about WHAT happens, and it’s all about how you REACT to what happens.
Excuses aside.
It’s time to take responsibility for our happiness. If your happiness & peace of mind is important to you, it’s time to stop blaming circumstances/other people for our anger.
You’re in control, dear one.
It’s all about how you react to things.
That’s where the power is.
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I also just released a new video talking just about THIS & telling the story of what happened last week🤬!
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#anger #frustration #annoyed #innerpower #feelings #takecontrol #youareincontrol #innerwisdom #innergrowth #nycliving #blondie #youdoyou #beautifullife #happiness #excuses #personalgrowth #personaldevelopment #whysoangry #nycyoutuber #society #abrahamhicks #lithuaniangirl #bethelight #goodvibes #inspiredliving

Haiiiiiiii, friends.
It’s yo girl Gabie!🙆🏼‍♀️
How’s it going?! How’s your week so far?! Gimme one word!! My word is ‘emotions.’
Once again, my week started sort of weird, but today I’m on an absolute high! (not high as in HIGHHH🚬 , but high as in 🤩😆🥳.... you know what I mean...)
🙈I’m amazed by how many emotions we’re able to feel! I’m also amazed by HOW MUCH my emotions can change. Hour by hour, day by day.
🥰Life’s been so much better since I’ve allowed myself to feel fully. Annoyed? Imma feel that. Angry? Let it alllll outttt. Happy? DANCE PARTY.
👯‍♀️All these ups and downs are normal & beautiful & we gotta have them. When I let go of the unrealistic fantasy of being happy ALL THE TIME, everything became a little easier and less stressful!
🤗Giving you a big, warm hug! Tell me how your week is!!!
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#youdoyou #innergrowth #shareyourself #innerpower #emotions #feelings #feelyourfeelings #nycliving #astoria #blondie #happy #emotional #personalgrowth #innerwork #innerwisdom #abrahamhicks #beyourself #loveyourself #checkin #lithuaniangirl #beautifullife

Oh hey it’s me standing in a 🌳pose. How cool is that?
Okay, now onto a caption that’s completely unrelated to me standing in a tree pose. (lol)
🤷🏼‍♀️I’m having one of the best weeks ever!!! And the crazy part is that I started the week by feeling like this is gonna be one of the WORST weeks ever. Ain’t that funny?!
🙁On Monday I was really low, had a lot going on emotionally, could barely hold myself together and had 0 motivation, felt so uninspired and on the verge of tears every minute.
🙂Yesterday I had one of the best days ever. I did SO. FRIGIN. MUCH and felt like a total girl boss + I was just so damn PROUD OF MYSELF. I was on fire. I had a dance party by myself. I felt unstoppable.
🧐My point: our feelings will change hour by hour, day by day. One day we feel like we’re slowly dying, the next we feel unstoppable and excited.
💕That’s only normal. That’s life. The important thing is to let yourself feel all of these emotions, but to NOT let any of this define you. Monday sucked, Wednesday was incredible. Amazing. That’s fine. We just gotta ride these waves & become pro surfers🤙🏻
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
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#emotions #feelings #innerpower #selfawareness #innerwisdom #feelyourfeelings #aligned #inspireothers #quoteoftheday✏️ #inspiredaily #breakthrough #surf #blondie #nycliving #inspiredliving #creativeliving #soho #treepose #yoga #youdoyou #personalgrowth #innergrowth #shareyourself #crushyourgoals #youdoyou

I had the CRAZIEST realization today in the gym.🤯
You know the quote “Never give up on a dream just because of the time it will take to accomplish it. The time will pass anyway.”?!? Well, I understood it, and knew it, but didn’t REAAALLY know it. Ya feel me?!
⚡️Basically: at the end of my workout I was doing 60 second planks. Every time I got into my position, i’d stare at my watch and see the seconds go by and think ‘fasterfasterfasteromgicantholditanymore.’
💫Last set I decided to ignore the time. Just look straight down, focus on my strength, form, and the move. 60 seconds went by JUST LIKE THAT & i was like 😧🤯😳
🔊That quote just clicked. It’s NOT ABOUT TIME. Not about time whatsoever!!! We go intro partnerships & marriages, vowing ‘i will be with you forever’, TRUSTING and having faith that this will be true. Right?!
🧐Yet we won’t start our dream business because it’s gonna ‘take a while & it will be hard?!’ Being frustrated that it could take more than 5,8,10 years? 💁🏼‍♀️Anyways. Take what you wish from this, but I felt like for me something just clicked. Something started to make sense. A lightbulb in my brain lit up.
💖Let’s ignore the time aspect of chasing a dream. After all, we don’t know if we’ll live for 80 more years, or 8. Pour your heart into something daily & simply focus on that. Time will take care of itself.
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#hollyshit #realization #breakthrough #time #dothework #quoteoftheday✏️ #thoughts #inspiredaily #inspireothers #motivateothers #blondie #nycliving #chaseit #loa #justdoit #innerpower #innerself #personalgrowth #personaldevelopment #astoria #gymthoughts #fitfam #timeless #youdoyou

Happy Sunday, sunshines!☀️
A reminder to take time for yourself & do things that make you happy and relaxed and fulfilled and no one has to know about it nor do you have to post about it.
Ya know what I mean?
One of those ‘if you went to the gym & didn’t take a selfie, it didn’t happen.‘
🧐Ummm... no... it totally DID happen and who the heck came up with that silly phrase in the first place?!
I’m working on lots of projects right now but I’m not sharing it nor am I really talking about it, because I just wanna enjoy this creative process and take everything at my own pace and I’m thinking of it as my own little (not so little) soul project!
✨Sometimes we talk so much about what we wanna do, or what we hope to do, that we expend our energy on talk talk 🗣, instead of doing the walk walk🚶🏼‍♀️
So... here’s to taking action and putting in the work behind closed doors where no one can see it, instead of talking so much about it, we have no time left to make it happen.😉 Enjoy the rest of your weekend!
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#sunday #sundayfunday #sunshine #spring #nycliving #nyc #weekendthoughts #thoughtoftheday #thoughtoftheday💭 #powerfulquotes #quoteoftheday✏️ #motivationalquotes #inspireothers #takeaction #doit #workinsilence #creatives #creativeprocess #creativeproject #blondie #happy #goodthings #goodvibes #dothework #loa #sundaymotivation #sundaylove

Hi friends!
Everything is meaningless!
😟‘Wait, what? What do you mean everything is meaningless?!’
✨When you really think about it, nothing has any meaning whatsoever. We’re the one’s who put meaning onto things.
For example: Rejection ain’t real.
💑If you ask someone out, and they say ‘no, thank you!’ That’s not rejection. Someone simply said ‘no’ to you and that’s all there is. We’re the one’s who put meaning onto things and make up all kinds of stories about it!
😫’He rejected me. He said no because I’m worthless, I’m ugly, I’m not good enough. I knew my nose was too big.’
Whoa whoa whoaaa, slow down!
❤️There’s so much power and freedom in this realization. If someone says no to your book proposal, you can be like ‘yeah ok no problem buddy, thanks!’ and pitch it to someone else. Their NO means nothings, unless YOU let it mean something.
So, embrace the fact that nothing has any meaning except the meaning that YOU give it. Mucho love!💖
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Hi, friends!
I wanted to ask you something...
✨What would your daily life look like if you focused on what it is you DO want, rather than worrying and stressing about what it is you DON’T want?✨
I’ve been really working on myself & my beliefs/thoughts the last few weeks, and lemme tell you - WOW. Opportunities keep coming to me at such speed, all I can do is smile and say 🙋🏼‍♀️Hey, life! I ❤️YOU! Thank You!💁🏼‍♀️I’m honestly blown away.
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Whatever it is we’re stressed about: finances, health, relationships, career, we have the power to change how it appears to us.
🥉Instead of saying ‘This debt is slowly killing me omg SOS help what do I do’
🥇Say ‘Okay. I am SO ready to bring more dollar bill$$$ into my life. How can I do that?!’ When you ask better questions, and focus on bringing about a solution rather than re-affirming the problem, you’ll be amazed at how your life begins to change! Also, your brain is hella smart & will always work on coming up with an answer to your question. So asking better & more empowering questions = coming up with better & more empowering answers/solutions.
Try it out! Let me know what area in your life you’re ready to transform!❤️
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#beliefs #thoughts #quoteoftheday #quoteoftheday✏️ #quoteoflife #abrahamhicks #estherhicks #loa #goodthoughts #changeyourlife #empoweryourself #loveyourself #abundance #universe #innerpower #inspireothers #inspireyourself #goodvibes #wordsofencouragement #wordsofaffirmation #gabbybernstein #louisehay #attract

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